Do I have too high standards for others as well as myself?  

Roommate and I were talking about under what conditions, basically, one should receive funding and everything.  And...I dunno, he seems annoyed/angry with the fact that I said there are certain things that people who are funded ought to continue doing and all.  But I don't know.  To me, those who are funded receive a responsibility that the others do not have, and therefore have more of a responsibility to the department.  And they need to do things throughout the entire year.  So yeah, if they don't do those things, I will remark that I don't believe they deserve funding.  

Harsh on my part, maybe, but his reaction made me think that I'm some sort of monster for daring to say something like that.  I don't know. 

Not that my opinion matters anyway?  I'm not the one who picks who gets funding and all.  And those who are in charge of funding don't exactly ask me either, so again, it doesn't matter. 

But I'm simultaneously annoyed at him for having that reaction against my higher standards, and feeling like a terrible person for having those high standards.  It is a weird contradiction.  Huh.